7 Ways to Connect with Your Teen in Cobble Hill & Boerum Hill (That Don’t Involve a Lecture)
- Jun 23
- 1 min read
As a therapist in Brooklyn, I talk to a lot of moms who are trying to stay connected to their preteens or teens and feeling like they’re slowly being shut out. Your kid used to spill everything. Now they mostly shrug. It’s confusing, and a little heartbreaking.
But here’s the truth: most teens still want connection with their parent they just don’t want it to feel like a thing. So here are 7 low-pressure ways to spend time together in Cobble Hill and Boerum Hill that invite connection, without making it awkward.
Let your teen pick out a book while you both sip something from the café. Being side by side without pressure can spark connection later on.
This Boerum Hill art studio is a perfect spot to create together without needing to talk the whole time. Let creativity do the connecting.
Start at Pier 6, walk north, grab a cone at Ample Hills, and just enjoy each other’s company. Movement helps soften conversations.
4. Smith Street Dining
Try Bricolage for Vietnamese or Shelsky’s for something Jewish and classic. Food opens up connection, even if it’s just through trying something new.
5. Beacon’s Closet / Housing Works
Go vintage hunting together. Try things on. Laugh. Let them style you. Zero pressure, just fun.
Classes make you equals not parent/child. Try pottery, cooking, or yoga for a shared experience without the spotlight.
If things still feel distant or strained, therapy can help you rebuild that bridge in a safe, supportive space.
