Sabrina Grover

Why do we walk away from relationships that feel meaningful, safe, or even loving? Why does connection sometimes trigger panic instead of comfort? For many, the answer lies not in a lack of love but in complex PTSD (C-PTSD) and attachment trauma. This article explores why people leave relationships they genuinely want, how complex PTSD affects intimacy, and how attachment theory explains the push-pull dynamic that can sabotage connection. If you’ve ever thought, “Why do I do this?” this is...

The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of love, connection, and closeness. Yet for many people in Brooklyn and across New York City , the holidays coincide with an increase in breakups, relationship conflict, and emotional distress. As therapists, we frequently see clients ask: Why is my relationship falling apart now? The answer is rarely simple—but psychology, seasonal mental health research, and clinical experience offer meaningful insight. Below, we explore why breakups commonly...

When life feels overwhelming or stuck, it’s natural to seek ways to grow emotionally and find balance. I’ve found that psychotherapy...